Someone that impact your life..

Yesterday night, i have a great chat with my mum. At first we did not start out with this issue, we were talking about our family matters. Next we discuss about how life eventually changes for every human beings. And next we talk about friendship.

FRIENDS. A very sensitive topic to discuss about. First I shall start out with 2 different character getting along well due to common topic which leads to friendship. And why not we start to count from now..

How many friends do we make from the first time we went to school? Or even much earlier.
How do we know each other?
How long does the friendship last? Forever or just few months?

Then by the time i think of all this question. I recall once i was chatting with a sec school classmates in swensen. I remembered that i ask her "Am i your close friend?" Surprisingly that she answered me by saying "There is no close friends or unclose friends in this world. All are just purely friends only." Its easy to place them this way so that you won't get hurt when someone betray you. True.

So when i told my mum, she help me to put it in this way. Our life is like a long line, between this line there are intersections and that's where friends come in. Friends will walk in and out thoughout your life. This line that represent life will leave only marks. Marks that wouldn't fade away, marks that will gain you more experience in handling future friends. I can't disagree by saying "Friends really do impact our life greatly." But more importantly is our own personal thinking and judgement we give to ourselves. Friends opinion can only be take in as reference but not a path to follow blindly. Trust yourself and I am sure each and everyone of us will be satisfy with our own decision. Don't be afraid to make mistakes because after all our life still have to carry on. Like the line to eternity.